Sex & Sexuality

Counselling | Coaching | Education | Consulting

Talking and learning more about sex, sexuality, pleasure, and the complexities of this part of ourselves can be tough.

My intent is to transform the subject of sex and sexual health by providing personalized education and support to empower people to be experts in their own sexual understanding, practice, literacy, and expression.

Welcome, and thank you for being here.


As a public school teacher for over a decade I am using that learning and education toward a career path in sex education, coaching, counselling, and consulting. I hold a Master Degree in Education and a teaching degree both from the University of British Columbia and am completing the educational and supervision requirements to be a Registered Clinical Counsellor and Sex Therapist. I work with Queen’s University as both an instructor and course writer in the Faculty of Education and have a private practice that provides client support around sex education and personal development. As well, I coordinate a group of interdisciplinary professionals in a community practice of care who educate adults on topics within sexual health for their own learning and as a way to show up better for the youth in their lives.

My approach is educationally grounded, non clinical, does not seek or attempt to diagnose or pathologize, and is trauma and justice informed. I will continue to work toward decolonized and anti-racist practices and am well versed in topics of consent, 2S/LGBTQIA+, pleasure, body sovereignty, gender, identity, advanced practices, and sex education at all levels.

chelsea flett
she / they
MEd, BEd

  • offering virtual, phone, or in-person sessions for individuals, couples, groups, families, and other configurations of relationships.

    my scope of practice includes a specialty in sex and sexuality however, we are not limited to only this area of self.

    please do not hesitate to reach out for more information in regards to working together and what you are looking for.

    $120 | 1 hour session for individuals

    $150 | 1 hour session for couples

    $175 | 1 hour session for groups

  • with a collaborative approach, I work with individuals, couples, groups, and organizations in a variety of ways from curriculum design and course instruction to workshops, lectures, and more.

    fee for service is dependent on service you are seeking - please inquire.

  • this ongoing, multi-faceted project is seeking individuals interested in sharing about their sex education journey throughout their life. we will explore questions such as how did sex education inform you throughout your life? and what do you wish you had been taught?

    please reach out if you are interested in being a part of this project, we would love to hear from you!

    this project has no cost and we are greatly appreciative for those wishing to volunteer their time for this research.

Services | Collaborative Projects

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Sexual literacy encompasses a vast knowledge base that connects us to our sexual self – pleasure, healthy relationships, media influences, body awareness & autonomy, shame, childhood experiences, safe sex, unpacking/de-centering heteronormativity, the intersections of race, decolonization and sexuality, debunking myths, queerness, and many more can be included in one’s own sexual literacy. Sexual literacy provides confidence, communication skills, boundaries, awareness, and responsibility.

what is it and why is it important to have?

Sexual Literacy

sexual literacy is essential learning for all – it is part of what makes us unique individuals.

  • At this time, I do not.

  • Of course!

    My education and experience provides a wide scope of practice such as: sex & sexuality, topics related to Queerness and the Queer experience, coming out, being in relationship to self and others, childhood experiences, relating to others, family challenges, support for parents and other professionals that work with kids, self regulation, life decisions & challenges, grief & loss, patterns of behaviour, goal setting, hopes & fears, personal strengths & growth areas, and more.

    Please reach out to ask about a specific topic that might not be listed above.

  • In regards to 2S/LGBTQIA+ affirming my practice and professional approach is informed by my own lived experience as part of the Queer community. As well, my decade long work as a teacher has informed my dedication to this work through seeing the gaps in regards to heteronormative practices and approaches to inclusion and education.

    Being body affirming means that I do not centre the problematic view that small bodies are better bodies. I live my life with the knowing that all bodies are good bodies and that health does not have a “look.”

    Being gender affirming means that I do not subscribe to the belief that gender is binary. Gender is a social construct and its expression is infinite. I affirm each individual’s gender expression and what that means to them.

    I want to acknowledge that none of us are perfect and mistakes happen. However, we must learn from our mistakes, educate ourselves, and do better when, inevitably, we mess up.

  • Being justice informed is at the core of how I choose to show up in this world. As someone who has been afforded a lot of privilege in life, it is essential that I educate myself and others, where appropriate, about injustice and how we as individuals and as part of a collective must work to uplift and transform the world for those who are marginalized in both the human and non-human world.

    It is clear that we live in a world that is currently and historically impacted by the oppressive and horrific practices that colonization is built upon. As a white person, to decolonize is the ongoing acknowledgement of and process of unlearning of systemic racism that exists in all the systems (justice, medical, education, etc.), I was raised within. I continuously try to challenge and address colonial viewpoints, approaches, research methods, beliefs, biases, and more, so as to de-center whiteness and the colonial ways that many societies and cultures now exists upon.

    As a white person, it is my responsibility to take up less space, do my work of unlearning, listen more, educate other white people around discussions of decolonizing and being justice informed, advocate for marginalized folks, give reparations as I am able, and to amplify Black, Indigenous and People of Colour’s voices. I am always into these discussions and always open to feedback and being checked!

  • Sex education is a vast knowledge base that pertains to all people at all ages with the understanding that the information needs to be age appropriate. Comprehensive sex education is the process of teaching and learning about the cognitive, emotional, physical and social aspects of sexuality and can include but is not limited to:

    • boundaries

    • healthy relationships

    • consent

    • communication

    • body image and the impacts of media and our bodies

    • pleasure

    • sexual health (ex STI’s)

    • sexual orientation & gender identity

    • body awareness/autonomy/anatomy/development

    • confidence

    • debunking myths

    • shame

    • unpacking/de-centering heteronormativity

    • coming out

    • sexual awareness and practice

    • advanced topics such as kink & BDSM

    • and so much more …

  • Sexuality counselling can be short or long term support that is client(s) centred. As well, it can be focused on an immediate concern or something that the client(s) wishes to unpack from various lenses that may take more than a few sessions together.

  • Sexual literacy encompasses a vast knowledge base that connects us to our sexual self. Sexual literacy includes but is not limited to the following topics: pleasure, healthy relationships, media influences, body awareness & autonomy, shame, childhood experiences, safe sex, unpacking/de-centering heteronormativity, the intersections of race, decolonization and sexuality, debunking myths, queerness, and many more can be included in one’s own sexual literacy. Sexual literacy provides confidence, communication skills, boundaries, awareness, and responsibility.

  • You do not. I work with people individually, in couples, with multiple partners, those who are monogamous or non-monogamous, and am supportive and informed on many relationship configurations.

Sexuality and sexual health are beautiful, diverse, and necessary parts of what it means to be human. Comprehensive sex education is essential in supporting people in knowing who they are, providing support on how to develop safe and healthy boundaries for themselves, and what influences our own sense of self. Coming to understand what sexual literacy means to you is vital as we experience the ever increasing complexities of the world.

My Approach

My approach is educationally grounded, non clinical, does not seek or attempt to diagnose or pathologize, and is trauma and justice informed. I will continue to work toward decolonized and anti-racist practices and am well versed in topics of consent, 2SLGBTQIA++, pleasure, body sovereignty, gender, identity, sex education of all levels and ages, and am well versed and affirming of all relationships styles.

In person and virtual support helping you to develop healthier and more pleasurable relationships.

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I offer a consultation call to better assess your needs and our potential work together.

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